Jerk Off Instruction -Joi Phone Sex

JOI PHONE SEX

As a dominatrix, I understand the allure of JOI (jerk-off instruction) sessions. They can be incredibly exhilarating and thrilling, as I guide you through a series of commands and instructions, pushing you to the brink of ecstasy. I enjoy JOI phone sex or webcam shows and being in control of when you can orgasm, if you can orgasm or if I will just go ahead and ruin that orgasm. It’s all up to me what way I want to play it with you.

During our session, I may start with a slow countdown, teasing and tantalizing you with descriptive words and phrases, building the anticipation and intensity gradually. As we progress, I may incorporate edge play, bringing you closer and closer to the edge of orgasm before denying you release, I may give you tasks or visuals to look at and discuss with me as  I am building you up, I may decide on bowls o ice to take the feeling away and make you start all over again.

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During my phone chat sessions, I will describe the sensations you’re experiencing, painting a vivid picture in your mind of the pleasure and frustration you’re feeling, I’ll also use descriptive words and triggers to plunge you deeper into submission a huge part of phone sex session involves me describing in detail my own actions and movements, bringing you deeper into the fantasy, I paint the picture in your head of what’s happening a fantasy scenario that you can imagine as I go deeper and deeper with you, almost as if you are going into a trance.

 Some of the Joi Commands I will Give In the Phone Sex Session Are as Follows but are not limited to!

  • Make it wet: Use saliva or lotion to lubricate your hand and your genitals before starting.
  • Speed and intensity: Guiding you through different speeds and intensities, starting slow and building up to faster strokes.
  • Strokes: Telling you how many strokes they should have and which hand to use and where to stroke
  • Fantasy: Paint a vivid fantasy in your mind to think about while you follow the instructions
  • Temperature play: Use a cold cloth or ice to decrease sensation in the genitals, or a warm cloth to increase it
  • Edging: Bring your partner to the brink of orgasm multiple times before allowing them to cum.
  • Gooning: Use descriptive words to encourage them to make themselves cum harder, not letting them cum at all and making you goon for days right until you get blue balls
  • Pre-cum play: I will tell you to pay attention to the pre-cum that is coming out of your penis, I may then decide to use it in some creative ways
  • Counting edges: Make you count the number of times you edge before allowing them to cum.
  • Control: Take control of the session and guide you through the experience.
  • CEI (cum eating instruction) ruined orgasm or post-orgasm torture or even forced into chastity with no release at the end.
  •  Using implements such as wands to intensify the scenario
  • Incorporating anal play or poppers play

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The above is just some of the scenarios I may use in a real Joi phone chat session with you, but I do enjoy the element of surprise so won’t be listing everything on this page

As we Reach The Joi Climax

As we reach the climax of the session, I’ll give you specific instructions on how and when to release, making sure to push you to your limits before allowing you the release you crave, This could involve a game of a countdown known as the cum countdown and if you do not beat y clock we will start all over again with edging. 

Of course, as a dominatrix, my role is to be in control and guide the session, but it’s important to note that communication is key. During our session, I will be paying close attention to your reactions and responses, the noises make and what you are saying, making sure to adjust the pace and intensity to suit your needs and desires. And you will be expected to communicate your boundaries and limits so that we can create a safe and enjoyable experience for both of us.

In addition to verbal commands and instructions, I may also use props and tools to enhance the experience. These could include items such as a wand vibrator, a feather tickler, or a pair of nipple clamps, dildos and vibrators or even sounding. These tools can add an extra layer of sensation, taking the experience to new heights of pleasure.

It’s important to note that being a Dominatrix is not just about giving orders and control during the session, it’s also about creating a connection and trust with the submissive. A dominatrix should be able to read the submissive’s body language, reactions, and responses, and adjust the session accordingly to create an experience that is tailored to their needs and desires.

A dominatrix should be able to create a safe space for the submissive to explore their desires and fantasies without judgement. This can be accomplished by being open-minded, non-judgmental, and respectful of the submissive’s boundaries and limits, the joi phone sex site or webcam services can provide that, it provides anonymity and a safe place to try out various different techniques within the BDSM lifestyle.

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Orgasm Control On the Phone

 Being a  dominatrix one of my favourite techniques to use during a BDSM phone chat session is orgasm control. This is where I take control of when and how you are allowed to orgasm. It’s a fun and exciting way to tease and deny you pleasure, building up the anticipation and making your eventual release that much more satisfying.

I’ll always start by bringing you to the brink of an orgasm multiple times, playing with different speeds and intensities, but just before you cum, I’ll slow down or stop completely. It’s a form of teasing and denial that will drive you wild with desire it is very similar to Joi’s side mentioned above but my spin on this one is the definite inclusion of chastity and gooning.

I always use different techniques such as edging, where I’ll bring you to the point of orgasm, then back off, and repeat the process multiple times before allowing you to cum. Or ruin orgasm, where I’ll make you cum, but in a way that it doesn’t feel satisfying. This way, I’ll keep you begging for more and more, locking you up in chastity and becoming your keyholder is a huge turn-on to me, the power and control I then have over you is intense.

It’s important to know that as a dominatrix, I’m always in control and you’ll have to follow my commands and instructions at all times or find yourself on my block list, I don’t like those who try to top from the bottom or become a switch mid-session. I’ll be the one to decide when and how you’ll cum, and you’ll have to trust me and let go of control, my word is always final, if you can’t cope with that then find another Mistress to play with.

However, don’t worry, I’ll make sure to push you to new heights of pleasure, and when I finally allow you to cum, it will be an explosive and satisfying release.

So, are you ready to surrender control and let me take charge of your orgasm?